It went pretty well, actually! She slept from 12-230 (she didn't wake up today until 730), which was longer than I thought she might do.
The party was really fun. She's had all sorts of SA lately, crying when I leave the room, etc. But at the party she was constantly trying to crawl away from me and be with the big kids! Then she was holding onto my friend for dear life when it was time to go and cried when we left! Silly girl.

Didn't get her into bed until 630 since we had to nurse, etc when we got home. Had to pat her to sleep since I think she was OT and pretty sad. I think if we try one nap days from now on, the A time after the nap needs to be a bit shorter.
But overall, it was a success and I think we may be closer to one nap than I'd thought.
One thing is that the kids do our homeschool coop 3 mornings a week and it won't be possible for her to nap until 1 or 130 those days. She almost never will nap for DH in the carrier. He asked me what to do those days (first time will be next Wed) and I feel like there's not a lot TO do, just get her down as soon as possible when he gets home. If she takes a 15 min car nap around 1230 or 1, what time would you try for another nap you think?