Thanks for replies! He sleeps fine in his crib at night, goes off independently (for the most part) but during the day it just turns into carnage! I can't do first or last nap in crib due to school run and tbh I am finding myself avoiding doing the midday one too now as it's just such a nightmare!
I'm answering my own question really as I know I need to just persevere with daytime crib
Naps, I think I'm just feeling overwhelmed with things to work out, crib naps, 45 min naps, swaddling (he hates buy daren't start weaning as the fact he goes to sleep at night without much drama is all I have to hold onto right now!), night wakings getting earlier (he was going for 5/6 hours abd now back to 3.5), early wakings... Even writing it all is making me feel a bit anxious :-(
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