Hi
I haven't tried that test this time around, but maybe the doctor will do it when I go?
I think she is a light sleeper (as am I). The room is pitch black, so no problem there with light bugging her. We are quiet overnight, unless the 2 year old wakes. The only thing that I know can happen is that I disturb her when I turn over in bed...It is such a pain. I lie there tense half the time trying not to move and I struggle to get in the bed without rustling the duvet! I can't sleep (or the baby either) in another room as we are living with my mum while the house is decorated, so my mum only has so many rooms to fit us...(my husband sleeps downstairs on a sofabed so that he can have the monitor for the 2 year old - if we had it in my room with the baby, it would disturb the baby if the toddler woke up, so that is why we have this strange sleeping situation).
What at is the 8th leap and wonder week you mention? I know she is teething as I can see a tooth peeking through.
You mention that we could probably aim for 2-2.5hours of sleep in the day. Well today, she only had one nap again...In the morning and it was for 1.5 hours roughly. She came around by herself, no need to wake her from it. But unfortunately, she didn't nap again in the afternoon at around 4.30pm (it was this late because my mum took the children out while my husband and I were at the house decorating). So, I don't know what to do...Also, worth noting, she was in a fairly good mood this evening despite not having a nap in the afternoon. Is she delirious with sleep deprivation?! With the 11 hours sleep at night, do you mean undisturbed by NW? It looks like my day starts and ends as you say (i.e. 6.30am and ends at 7pm - except for the last two days when I've pulled it earlier to 6.30pm due to her not napping in the afternoon. Is this wrong?).
When she wakes at night what I do is this: I wait for her to keep persisting in her one-off cries until she sounds like she's going to get worse. I go over and feel if she is wet or hot/cold. I put her soother back in if she has lost it. She isn't always sitting up when I go over to her but up on her arms as if to sit up. Sometimes she is sitting up. It is hard to tell in the pitch black until I get to her! I don't pick her up unless I've tried to keep putting her down and she's not having any of it and gets really upset. I only pick her up at this point because I begin to wonder whether she is in pain or wet and I missed it, or has soiled her nappy. I don't look directly at her and I don't talk unless I need to shush her to calm her down. But over the last two or so nights, it has not got like this. I have just checked her briefly as I explain above and lay her down again or back onto her back for a change of position for her to start her off again. I go and lay down and hope she doesn't cry out for me again once I'm laying still in the bed again...So, am I doing it OK?
I do have the book and will check out the parts you mention but won't be able to do it tonight, I'm so tired. I'll try and check out the thread you mention too.
What do you think about how today went? Shall I push her morning nap later by 15 minutes over every 3 days? I think I read that in the information here somewhere. Because, if she is just going to keep doing this one nap thing, should I try and get her to have it in the afternoon?