When I say concerns me, I am talking about myself, I am lacking of sleeping at night as I have to wake up every 1.5 hours, and now on top of it, I can’t sleep with his grunting/sucking noise, because I sleep right beside him, and I have to sleep so close so when he wakes up and cries at night, I can feed him and put him back to sleep, sleeping beside him sounds the ‘best’ solution for now. I have to get up sooooo often at night, and now his noise becomes another disturber , that’s why I am eager for finding a way to get better sleep for both myself and my boy.
Another concern is prop, I don’t feed to sleep, I use 4S, but since I have to feed him so often at night, I am not sure when I should reduce the night feeding, for now, almost every time he wakes up, I feed him, will it become a prop?
Normally I let him sleep on side, and during sleeping, he turns his body himself and lying flat on his back, I don’t hear any choking or sickness. If I wind him and put back down, it does stop the noise, but it doesn’t last long either, only couple minutes, he continues.
I really don’t know how to diagnose his reflux, usually we talk to pediatrician which I already did, none of them think my boy has reflux, and the way to diagnose is taking trial medication, every med has side effect, I don’t want to try it on a 3-month-old baby unless it’s really necessary, especially he doesn’t have many symptoms now. So I don’t know what to do, I am kind of stuck here. All I can do is suck it up, hoping when he gets older/bigger, he can sleep longer stretch.
Thank you for everyone’s rely, appreciate it.