Hi Hun,
That's such a great update, well done on a super start
I thought we could now sit on a chair beside her and move the chair back every few days.
Yes perfect, sit on a chair sideways, so as to try and avoid contact. Choose a 'sleepy phrase' to use, for eg: "Sleepy time Darling" or something using familiar language to you both, and use it sparingly. When you feel it is possible be 'hands off' Only move on to the next stage when she is handling the current one well. Usually every 3 to 5 days for most.
Or I liked the idea of "jumping out for a second to do ..." - does this count as the same method as the chair or a combination is OK?
The just going to do x y z is more WI/WO. I would stick with GW if it is going well as I do think it sounds like it would suit her best. If you combine it will more than likely confuse her and upset the apple cart. Eventually with GW you will be standing in the doorway, then outside the doorway maybe just saying 'sleepy phrase' if needed so she knows you're there, and you're out
Once you have used a method like this it is super, because when you get regressions you can use it again, and you and LO are familiar with it. It is always good to have 'a plan of action' it really helps you to stay in control, IME there is nothing worse than 'flailing in the wind' it is really stressful
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She got back on track waking up at 6.30-6.50 am now. With a nap of 40-60 minutes. So after this I can say I think she still needs her nap and maybe skip one every few days if she wants. And I don't get upset with myself anymore if she sleeps less than 1 hour.
This sounds sensible to me, often LO's will skip the odd nap during the 1-0, and sometimes it can have a positive effect. I would be tempted to stick with a nap of no more than 45 minutes and see how she goes. How is she upon waking from a nap of this length
Oh and also I did the Toddler Quiz and I was surprised as she obviously turned from spirited baby to textbook toddler
Lucky you
bodes well for success lol.
Here for you all, keep up the good work Sweetie.x.