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Offline cadumg

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Not Naping after Hollidays
« on: January 12, 2015, 17:35:01 pm »
Our boy is 18 months now and since he was born he was on EASY. It worked very well on him and we did not have much problem on putting him on a routine. He always slept well and alone in the crib. Just before hollidays he was very addapted, we put him on the crib, have a little talk about sleep time, we will always be there for him and see you tomorrow, etc. When talking he look at us and when we live the room, he sleeps alone without crying.

He's usual routine is:

Wake up at 8am
Lunch at 12pm
Nap at 1pm
Wake up at 3pm
Dinner at 7pm
Bed at 8pm

On this Hollidays, we've traveled to Miami (- 3 hours) and in the place that we were there was no crib, he sleept in a small bed that he was able to leave whenever he wants. It was hard to make him sleep alone because he left the bed and walk to the living room. Sometimes we've had to make him sleep in our arms. We've stayed 9 days there. When we came back, he doesn't want to sleep at all (nap and night). When he realizes that he is going to sleep (enter to his room and it is dark or that we are going upstairs and mama and sis don't), he starts to cry and try to leave. He is very tired, we can see, but he doesn't want to sleep, he wants to stay with us and play. When I talk to him in the crib, he cries times and when we leave the room, he cries all the times and a lot, very loud. Even if we get him and (in our arms) put him in a position more comfortable to sleep, he cries knowing that we are doing this.

What should we do to put him back in the routine and want to sleep ? We are back for 7 days.

At what age should he stop naping ?



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Re: Not Naping after Hollidays
« Reply #1 on: January 13, 2015, 20:21:59 pm »
Hi there, (((hugs))) 18mo can be a rough time for sleep regardless, so with all the extra changes thrown in, I'm sure you're all tired. I'm going to move this thread over to the Sleeping for Toddlers board, since he is over 1yr.

My guess is that he needs the nap still and is not ready to drop it, but he may start needing a little longer day (13hr rather than 12) or less nap (1.5hr rather than 2). But, I'd start with the routine you had going and work on getting him back to independent sleep and then see where you are. Is he currently working on any teeth?

There are two options you have to get him back to sleep. I'll add a link describing both and you can decide which you think would work better for him, taking into account his personality. Since he's already been an independent sleeper, both options are viable in your case. Walk In/Walk Out vs. The Gradual Withdrawal Method (HOW TO CHOOSE)

Hope that helps. Let us know what you think and we'll help you through it. :)