I always wake her by 1hr 30mins but sometimes she wakes then or at 1 hr 15mins.
Ok, I wouldn't wake her. She can sleep up to 2hr for a nap if needed, esp as she's on the young side of 2 naps.
Hubby was on nighother bumch the orher night and he left her to talk to herself and she fell asleep after 5 mins but other nights she would cry after 5 mins.
I'd continue to leave her unless she actually cries for you. Yes, it's annoying to be woken, but if you're always going to her regardless, you are going to create more prop issues.
Im guessing its the dummy but i dont have the energy to even think about stopping it!
Probably time to start having her practice replugging on her own then. She should likely be able to do it within the next month or two. Practice during A time throughout the day and put a bunch in her crib, so she can get them on her own. I think they make glow-in-the-dark versions of most dummies as well.
Im wondering if her A time is needing increased more as shes started the refuse her pm nap?
Could be... it seems a bit quick as she's only been on two solid naps for 2-3 weeks. But, it's worth a try if she's consistently refusing.
(((Hugs))), hang in there!