Desperately seeking help......23 month old night waking!!!

[mamabear_3]

Hi!
I'm desperately seeking any help/advice/tips.....ANYTHING!!!
My little guy is 23 months today he's never been a great sleeper but was doing great from 20 months (sleeping through) but since his ear infection back in December it's been rough!!!! He's not getting any better at sleeping, his infection is cleared up but he's literally  waking at 12ish and from then on its impossible  to get him settled......I was sitting next to his crib but the past couple weeks that's not good enough.....Please help!! I'm at a complete  loss

[nevinsmama]

Hey hun, what is your day like? Any nap still? Any developmental stuff going on? What else are you doing to get him settled?

[mamabear_3]

Hey!
7:30 wakes up
8 breakfast
10:30 snack
11:30/12 lunch
1 nap for 1.5 hrs
Snack after nap
5:30 supper
7 bedtime snack
Bedtime is iffy......was 8 until all this began
Typically he would just snuggle his stuffy and turn over and go to sleep no fuss. Now as soon as we mention it's bedtime he immediately starts saying no. We still follow our night time routine even through his no's but he starts crying right from the get go being brought into his room......naps is fussy (little crys) nothing major for a minute or two then he's good.

No developmental milestones....still in a crib, doesn't seem to be his molars.
We were in Vaca for a week and during that time we just brought him in with us :/ I'm not one to have my kids sleep with me cause I know it can be habit forming.....

Any insight is greatly appreciated