Ok Honey, firstly very sorry for writing she instead of he in my previous post. I have already corrected my mistake. Once again sorry.
Going through your post once again, I think you definitely should try to work on your feeds. You seem to offer him milk 10 times a day (counting BF + FF).
7 - BF
7:30 - FF (2oz)
8:15 - milk in solids (how many oz?)
11 - FF 2-3 oz
11:45 - solids (fruit)
3:00 - FF 2-5oz + BF
5:45 - milk in solids
7 - FF 4-7oz
11pm (7oz)
3pm BF
I understand that you try to put more in him, but sometimes it has an opposite result and they tend to be not interested as they already took a huge amount. Moreover, I think you underestimate your breast Honey:). At 6mo many kiddos will BF for 5-7min and will take all they need meaning couple of oz! And I see that many times you offer BF and follow with FF - why you do it? Yes, your son may take some FF after BF but it's usually because it flies from the bottle. At 6mo the minimum they should get is 20oz and from what you wrote I am quite sure he take more but in very small amounts:).
Would you consider some feed consolidation?
I would consider:
- stopping to give him FF after morning BF (I am quite sure he takes what he needs already with FF)
- I would consider resigning from breakfast for time being or offer a very small fruits breakfast immediately after morning milk (small means 1-2oz of fruits)
- then go to 11am bottle straight away in hope that he will take a nice big bottle
Thanks to that I hope he will take most of his milk intake in two morning feeds.
- at 12 I would offer him solids, but would try for some veggies. He is 6mo so you will be just introducing proteins but lunch is a great moment to give it to him
- 2:30/3:00 bottle or BF (decide what you want to give him) I would make this feed at 3:00 or move it earlier if he still is not taking constantly a 6-8oz bottle at BT which should be your goal at this age; we struggled with BT with feed being at 3pm, but when I moved it to 2:30 he took slightly less but was happily taking a full BT milk
- 4/5pm dinner - I would offer here some rice cereal with milk and veggie or fruit for now; for him at that age a portion of 2oz milk + 2oz fruits will be a lot so look out so not to overfeed him here as he may refuse BT bottle
- 6:30 or 7pm BT bottle (hope for 6-8oz)
DF - as much as he wants
NF - BF as much as he wants
That's only an option but in general I would resign from 1 solid meal and offer him for now only 2 meals. I am a fan of lunch and dinner when on two meals, but many will offer breakfast & lunch and no dinner. Routine would look more like shown below.
7am BF
8am breakfast
12noon milk
1pm lunch
4pm milk
6:30/7pm milk
Just pick what you think is suitable for you.
Regarding sleep, with such a long nap at 5pm it's normal he is not interested in going to bed before 8pm.
Regarding NW... Have you considered dummy being a prop? It seems that he wakes many times just for dummy. 6mo is age when they cannot replug it by themselves, but still around 7/8mo they will. I would consider teaching him from now on how to replug it by himself. So everytime you replug, don't put it in his mouth, but take his hand, look for a dummy and make him put the dummy in his mouth. You can already put couple of dummies in his cot. When he will learn how to replug, it will be easier for him to find one.
Hope that helps! If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask!