He is 16 months now.
He has been an independent sleeper from about 4 months, no dummies, swaddled etc.
we moved i September and had major renovations in the house done, so we were all sauashed in one bedroom and co-slept for a couple of months. I was still BF at the time and as it turned out it wSnt co sleepibg but BF that was the problem at night. We weaned at 14 months, im pregnant and it wS unbearably painful to feed him. And within a week he started sleeping better, still slept with us for part of the night, but only woke twice to start with and then just once. We both work, so sone nights when we are both particularly tired then we will bribg him to bed with us, usually thats around 2am.
He has sttn twice, but not on this routine.
Since he was 14 months we aimed for
7wu
12-2 nap
7BT
In terms of nap and wu it worked perfectly he also settled at BT within minutes.
I reckon about 3 weeks ago he started waking earlier 6.30 or so and struggling at BT. Can take him upto 30 mins.
So we started doing set naps
7wu
12.15nap
7.15 BT
The problem is that he never wakes at 7, so wanted to shift that first really.
Yesterday we did
6.45wu
12.25nap-2.25
8BT
I think the 2 hour nap killed it for us, he was just not ready for BT. And we had 1 Nw around 2am, he slept till 6.50, but he was in a very light sleep, and in the night he was scratching abd movibg aroubd lots, just not tired enough and crying out, he does that when he cant fall into deep sleep.
So it seems that 2 hour sleep as lovely as it is is killing the dayfor us. i do prefer an earlier BT than 8pm