Hi Hun,
Having gone through sheer hell with DS and the 1-0 with nights as short as 9 hours for weeks on end, and no naps, it really can get a loss worse than this, and I see many threads to that effect too, which makes me nervous that you take the leap at this point when things aren't at crisis point yet YK
I wonder if as an alternative to Clazzat's suggestion (which was also one of my thoughts
of getting her up after an hour (after no nap I would be tempted to bring BT forward) you could try this:
WU 7.30 (always)
PD for nap at 2 and wake at 3 regardless.
BT 8.30.
This might mean, she goes over quicker for the nap due to the longer morning and then long am over rides short pm, but the day is 13 hours and not 12.5. You could still leave her with audio stories at 8 pm, so that you get as much 'grown up' time. Or, it could have the same result as putting her down sooner.
You might gain some consistency back this way
Of course she may be one of the LO's who adapt beautifully, and of obviously you don't know until you try, it's tricky when a LO doesn't refuse the nap, as it isn't a choice which is taken out of your hands
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I recently started audio stories for Sam to deal with BT nonsense, and he loves them, I think he does find it very relaxing
Just bear in mind, the 1-0 isn't just about the overall sleep in any 24 hour period, it's about how the sleep is spread, and each LO is different, which is why I would just be a little cautious about going cold turkey
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What do you think ladies
Whatever you decide, good luck Hun! Posting this in case you haven't seen it:
The 1-0 transition...Advice and Tips to help you through.x.