I'm very pleased to say that it seems the "switch" has certainly started to turn when it comes to IS
. I can get DD to nap in her crib for at least one nap a day on a consistent basis and sometimes multiple naps! I have learned that she does not like intervention and far prefers to fall asleep on her own rather than have sh-pat or a hand on the back or anything. Just a soother that needs to be replugged a few or sometimes several times and she's good to do it on her own (when it works).
However, I'm struggling to figure out her A time needs. I really think that if I had her A times right then she'd be napping in her crib for all naps and consistently napping longer (still having some short naps). Our A times seem all over the place and I'm struggling to see a pattern. I'm putting down 4 days of EAS so you can see the "pattern". Any thoughts/insights?
Apr 25 – Day = 4 hrs, Night = 11hrs, Total = 15hrs
WU/E 8:15 (woke her)
A 1hr40
S 8:55-9:05 (fell asleep very fast in the crib but woke crying after 10 min and couldn’t resettle so had to put in wrap 9:25 -11:10 = 1+1hr35 = 1hr45
E 11:15
A 1hr55 (Put in crib at Grandma's but wouldn't take it so eventually put in wrap)
S 1:10-2:45 (broken in wrap) = 1hr35
E 3:00
A 1hr10
S 3:55-4:15 (fell asleep within a couple of min in the crib but woke crying very hard, wouldn’t resettle so put in wrap and slept 4:25-4:45 - = 20+20 = 40 min
4:45 (woke her)
E 5:15
A 2hr30 (thought she’d sleep in the car but she just cried so gave up when we got home and went for EBT)
E 7:00
Night – 7:15-8 (several ENWs and NWs but pretty quickly down with soother replugging. NF 2:30-3:15, 6:45-7. Rocked back to sleep on breast, woke at 7:30 Total night sleep 11hrs?
Apr 26 – Day = 4hrs, Night = 10.25 Total, = 14.25
WU/E 7:30
A 1hr25
S 8:55-9 (in crib, woke wouldn’t resettle so in wrap), 9:10-10:35 (5+1hr25) = 1hr30
E 10:45
A 1hr20
S 11:55-12 (fell asleep instantly in crib but woke after 5 min and wouldn’t resettle, quite hysterical so put in wrap, asleep 12:10-2:00 = 1hr55 total
E 2:00
A 1hr30
S 3:30-4:10 (in stroller, woke her up) – 40 min
E 4:45
A 1hr25
S 5:35-6:15 (woke her) – 40 min
E 6:25 and 7:30 top up (asking as she didn’t have a full feed last time)
A 1hr45
BT In crib 7:45 didn’t protest, asleep 8-2, brief NW easily back to sleep with soother. NF 4:15-5, DH accidentally woke her at 7:05. Night = 10.25hrs
Apr 27 – Day – 3hr35, Night – 11 hrs, Total = 14hr35
WU/E 7:15
A 1hr25
S 8:40-9:45 (fell asleep within minutes in the crib ☺ had to wake her due to appointment ☹) – 1hr5
E 10:20
A 1hr20
S 11:05-12:10 (fell asleep within min in crib) – 1hr5
E 12:30
A 1hr40(put in crib late due to appointment. Asleep within minutes).
S 1:50-2:15 (asleep in crib, woke, couldn’t settle back escalated to hysterical in pain until burped but then couldn’t calm as OT. Put in wrap. Seemed to sleep 3-3:10.) = 25+10 = 35ish minutes
E 3:30
A ? Put down at 4:15 and asleep quite easily in a few minutes
S 4:20-4:30, briefly woke, then 4:30-5:10 (asleep in crib) – 50min
E 5:15 (not asking but I had to leave so I topped up)/6:45
A 1hr50 (falling asleep at 1hr35 but had to wait for me to come home)
BT 7:00 fell asleep instantly. Brief NW at 12. NF 3-3:45, struggling to breathe so a few EMWs. NF 6:30-7 then rocked to sleep 7-7:55 = Night = 11hrs?
Apr 28: Day – 4hr15, Night – 11.5 hrs, Total = 15.75 hrs
WU/E 7:55
A 1hr25 (showing clear tired signs at 1hr20)
S 9:20-9:45 (fell asleep right away in the crib, tried really hard to put herself back to sleep but just couldn’t then escalated) – 25 min
E 10:20
A 1hr35 (showing tired signs at 1hr5 so put in crib but she couldn’t settle so I put in the wrap)
S 11:20-1:20 (in wrap, woke briefly a few times throughout but easily back asleep) – 2hrs
E 1:25
A 1hr30 (Fussing and showing tired signs at 1hr20)
S 2:50-3:15, 3:20-3:40 (fell asleep right away in the crib, woke after 25 but put self back to sleep, woke after 20 and tried very hard to put herself back to sleep but she couldn’t) – 25+20=45min
E 4:15
A Yawning, acting tired and fussing at 1hr. Fell asleep within minutes but then kept waking every few minutes, crying and back to sleep for about 40 minutes, finally put in wrap and she conked out at 5:30 (1hr40 A time)
S 4:40-5:20 (15 minutes worth of sleep?), 5:30-6:10 = 15+40 = 55 min
E 6:15/7:40
A 1hr40
BT In crib 7:50, asleep within minutes, no fussing at all. Soother in at 1 and 1:30, NF 3:20-3:50, WU 7:50 = 11.5hrs