Hi! What's his EASY these days and what have you been doing for his NWs?
My DS also sleeps in the room with us and has actually pushed DH out because of his schedule and sounds. DS also had a few and long NWs up until 2 nights ago when we had him settle in his crib for all NWs. 5 days ago, I cut out all NFs. We had the exact NWs at around 12 and 3, or 1 and 4. He did have a few cry outs last night, but it could've been because he only slept 1 hr during the day and had a massive A time before bed.
Basically, I'm using the sleep sense program. Honestly, it's similar to some other books I've read on gentler methods of sleep training but the daily videos are awesome. Personally it's great because it holds me accountable and gives me tips for each night and day. It also is a motivator to not give up and just a good support overall.
Can you describe what your goals are and what the room situation would be again?