Koezmoe, 有你在太好了,我们能通电话吗或微信语音吗?
打字好慢,我急需帮助,已经快要精疲力尽了,沟通一些基本问题。
Thanks for everybody, especially to Katie80,thanks for your suggestion.
Now I need you clarify some basic concept when start a new routine, to check if I did something wrong, especially without consistence
I use option 2 you suggestion for example:
WU 6am
Nap 1 9-9:40am
Nap 2 12:40-2:40pm
BT 6:30/7pm
1、 WU:6;00 ,if he wake 5:40,just leave him in cot to play till 6:00, if he is still in sleep at 6:00(for prolonged NW), wake him up. Right?
2/ Nap1: should I put him down at 9:00 everyday or 8:50, leave several mins for him to settle? If he take 10mins to settle, when should I wake him up? 9:50 after a 30 mins nap, or 9:40 when the schedule time closed? Is your Lo always fall in sleep very quickly? Should Lo settle quickly after the few days if the A is reasonable? How do you do it at the first few days, hiding in his room to see when he falling in sleep or just make a alarm clock to wake him?
3/ for nap 2, put down him at 12:40, but he slept only 1hr20mins, wake naturally and happy, is there possible he can sleep longer in future days? Since he was satisfied with the length of sleep.
If he wake and cried during the nap, but could resettled himself and need wake him up at 2:40, does it mean he maybe can sleep longer in future days?
If he satisfied with 1hr20mins, he will tired around 17:40 maybe, how to deal with it? If offer another CN, Obviously he will fight the BT, but if not, he will very tired around 18:00 maybe.
I used to be a similar routine with it, nap1 at 9:00, nap2 around 12:30, but if the nap1 is 45mins, the nap 2 always be 1hr15min, if cap it to 30mins, nap2 will be 1:25, total 2hrs for two nap.
I will post some records, maybe not useful because of inconsistence.
But maybe the WU is different everyday.
So I think maybe I need three naps before 9months since he is LSN, two naps maybe cann’t balance his sleep.
So recent ten days, my routine is 8:45 nap for 20mins, 12:00 nap aim for 2hr 10min, 20mins afternoon nap between 16:15~17:00,
But I cann’t get 2hrs nap, he always wake during nap, then after several mins, he slept again,
only one day I got 2hrs,and he tried around 18:30, then BT19:00 without NW, 6:00 naturally wake.
For this routine, I am not sure wu 6:00 or 6:30 too, the book state could be anytime between 6:00~6:30.
Following are some records for the routine similar with you suggested:(x)
3.20
Wake at 6:20(without NW)
Nap1Put down at 8:45
Nap from 8:58~9:43 wake him
Nap2:put down at 12:25
Nap from 12:30~13:54 wake with a cry
BT:19:00, Settle quickly for he really tired,
3.21
Wake at 6:00(without NW)
Nap 1 put down 8:45
Nap from 8:55~9.41 wake him
Nap 2
Put down 12:15
Nap from 122~13:50
I lost records for 3.22.
3.23
Wake him at 7:00, many NW at night
Nap1
Put down at 8:55
Nap from 9:14~9.57
Nap2 put down at 12:25
Nap from 12.25~13.20
I have to offer another nap
From 16:40~16:57
3.24
6:20 wake but quickly sleep again then wake him at 7:00(two NW)
Nap1:put down at 8:55. 9:15~9:45
Nap2: put down at 12:28
Nap from 12:31 to 13:06
Wake at 13:06 but fall sleep at 13:21,then wake at 14:11
BT:19:00
3.25:
WAKE naturally at 6:20, without NW
NAP1
Put down at 8:25
Nap from 8:32~9:18(wake him ,we have to out)
Nap 2
Put down at 12:20
Nap from 12:25~14:25
3.26
Wake Naturally at 5:30(two NW, 1:00, 4:00)