Heidi, thanks so much for finding that A time bookmark for me! I'm used to higher sleep needs as DS has always been higher sleep needs, but I'm thinking maybe DD is a lower sleep needs baby. I'm not sure. It seems she needs closer to 4 hours or more in the morning but less A time in the afternoon and before bed maybe. That's interesting about the jolt. I remember reading about this now that you mention it but had forgotten. Yes, that 17 min nap was a one-time thing so I'm not reading too much into that one.
I wanted to give you guys an update on the past few days. I still haven't quite figured out what is going to work best for DD (as she keeps mixing it up on me...haha!), but we have been getting by okay at least. On Thursday, Friday, and Saturday, she took about a 30-40 min morning nap and a longer afternoon nap (between about 1 hr 10 min - 1 hr 25 min or so). This was of her own doing. I did not cap the morning nap at all. I thought maybe 4 hr 15 min was too long of an A time, so on Friday I dropped back to 3 hr 45 min. After 30 min she woke up just happy to play in her bed...so would this mean UT again? I thought maybe UT and needed to go back up again on A time. I don't know though.
Then, Sunday we were out at church, and she ended up with 4 hr 12 min morning awake time again and to my surprise napped about 1 hr 20 minutes or so in the morning. This was first time did a longer morning in awhile. Then, she did a 30 min afternoon nap.
Today, I did about same awake time again, and she did 30 min morning nap. She seemed as if she would re-settle but never did go back to sleep. She is having her second nap now, so we will see...
It sounds like a lot of developmental stuff to me.
Is she starting to pull up to standing? Recognising more words? Pointing to things when you say their name? building block towers?
This is a prime time for big developments and as a result sleep goes off track - and then it's also the beginning of the 2-1 so sleep goes off track. Babies will just insist on mixing it up so that we have no idea whether to stick with a routine and ride it out or keep tweaking in the hopes one of those times will start to make sense.
Teething? Just another thing to add to the mix.
This has given me something to think about. I know sleep can go off track during developmental times but as she's been somewhat crawling for a few weeks now I didn't think of this when sleep became disturbed again. But, she is starting to get her knees up more and crawl better. She is not really pulling up to standing yet but has done it when I was nearby to assist once. She has started to clap at things, familiar music, etc. I don't think she's teething at the moment though. You are right...I still haven't figured out whether to keep tweaking or just ride this one out. I've taken the ride this one out approach the past few days though...haha! And you're so right....6 weeks does feel like FOREVER!!! Yes, it's been about 2-2.5 weeks that she has been off track now I believe.
I know you both mentioned the shorter AM nap/longer PM nap again. I really wanted to do the longer AM nap/shorter PM nap; however, DD may not agree with me...haha! I'm still hoping for that as I ride out this phase she seems to be going through. As you've mentioned, I think I'm going to wait out the phase a bit more and then try to figure out a more set routine. However, if it does become increasingly clear she prefers a short morning nap/longer PM nap, what would you suggest for morning A time. Her days most commonly look like this now:
7:00 am wake-up
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A 4 hr 10 minutes
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S 30 minute AM nap (11:10 - 11:40 am)
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A 3 hours
S 1 hour 20 minute nap (2:40-4 pm)
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A 3 hours
S bedtime at 7 pm
Thanks so much for all of your continued help!