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Haha, thanks so much for all of your help!
Well, DD has just been so unpredictable the past few days..haha! I would like to just get to the 1 longer nap now I think as we are having such a hard time taking a timely CN! First, let me describe our past 2 days:
Yesterday:
7:35 am wake-up
12:37-2:23 pm (did a 1 hr 46 min nap after a 5 hour awake time!)
She was at mother-in-laws for awhile, and I had to take DS to swim lessons...so we were a bit later than I'd like for BT, but attempted 1 nap today since she was closer to 2 hours)
7:47 pm She was in bed earlier but took about 20 minutes to fall asleep. I thought she would fall right asleep.
Today:
7:55 wake-up
1:06-2:12 pm (I thought she would go right to sleep when put her in bed at 5 hours awake time like yesterday, but she took about 12 minutes to get to sleep at 1:06 pm. Then, she only slept 1 hr 6 min
I stayed in her room with her for 30 min laying her back down in her crib while she fussed off and on to try to get her back to sleep, but she just would not have it...so let her up.)
5:15 pm (started attempting a late CN...she was in her crib quietly so let her try to put herself to sleep for awhile. Of course, right as I fixed her bottle and was going to give up on CN and do EBT...she fell asleep!)
5:54 pm - 6:14 pm I wasn't sure what to cap this nap at since SO late....so I decided to try 20 minutes.
Now, I'm not sure when to feed and try BT. She had her last bottle at 3 pm and solids at 4 pm. I can't remember what time zone you are in so you may not see this in time....and that's okay if not.
I'm wondering why yesterday she went right to sleep after a 5 hour awake time and did a better nap but did not today. Do you think I should stick with 5 hours? Is it too long? I just really feel like she only wants to do one nap, but I could be wrong.
Also, I have read how to do W2S but have always been afraid to try it and wake her up and make nap time worse. I know you are supposed to go in when before they usually wake up. But, DD is so variable. She sometimes wakes after 40-45 minutes...sometimes an hour...sometimes not at all...etc. So, how would I go about doing W2S because I think I really do want to try the first option that you suggested and work on extending the 1 nap. Be back later when have more time! Thanks!