Hello Everyone,
I'm very new to EASY and have found this forum a fantastic resource. I now hope you can help me after a challenging night with my 5 month old baby last night.
We are now on day 4 of the EASY plan which we started to assist us with LO's nap time issues (difficulty going down/only napping 30 mins) We have seen huge success in this area, yesterday he did 2x 1.5hr naps and a 40 min catnap. Hooray!
My challenge is now the night time which was never an issue before! Previous to EASY he had been sleeping 7pm-4:30am with just one or two wake ups in between to pop the soother back in. The 4:30 wake up was a feed, he would then often go back to sleep for another hour or so 5-6:45.
As per the book we decided to try and get him sleeping through to 7am so we can follow the EASY plan so we started Dream Feeds.....oh dear! I am doing the DF in the bedroom no lights, talking or nappy changing. He's straight up and back down into bassinet. I should also mention that we have taken away the soother. LO is using his thumb now so I tend to leave one arm out the swaddle or sometimes use a grow bag. Heres is a break down of the last 3 nights:
DAY ONE- DF successful (no wake up)11pm DF
1:30am wakes (fell asleep within 10mins)
2:30 wakes (fell asleep within 10mins)
4:30 wakes (crying PUPD, pat/shhhh)
6:05-6:15 sleep
6:25-6:40 sleep
6:50 EAT (He's breastfed exclusively)
DAY TWO11:30 DF (wakes 10 mins to sleep)
2:15 wakes (fell asleep within 5 mins)
4:45 wakes (pat/sshhh)
5:30-6 sleep
6-7 (PUPD, Pat shhh quiet from 6:30)
7am EAT
DAY THREEDF 10:30 (wakes)
11pm sleep
11:45 wakes (pat, sshhh, falls into REM multiple times)
2:45 sleep
3:20 wakes and EAT (I couldn't help it! showed signs of hunger and ate well) (pat,shhh to sleep)
3:40 sleep
6:20 wakes (PUPD, pat shhh)
6:50 EAT
As you can see Ive gone from having great sleeps at night to a downward spiral! I understand that breaking habitual waking will be a process which I don't mind at all but I would love to hear your thoughts on this DF. Should I continue? My concern is that Im creating MORE habitual wake ups and perhaps the DF just doesn't work for him? If I do stop the DF's what sort of a plan would you recommend going into the day?
THANK YOU in advance! This is my first time posting on a forum and I'd love to hear your thoughts. If someone is able to write before tonight I'd be so grateful as I really don't know what to do!