I have somehow managed to completely mess up the overnight sleep training and I now have a DD who is up every night for 2hrs. Sometimes she seems very wide awake and is resistant to all attempts to help her sleep until at least an hour has passed. It's almost as if she thinks she has just woken from a nap and needs some A time. Initially I thought she was waking after the dream feed because of gas pain, but then I've noticed that she is now waking just before the DF time and then an hour after that...habitual waking? Unfortunately I have reinforced the behaviour because in an effort to keep her quiet so as not to wake DD1 I fed her, now she is up every night. What I don't understand, and don't know how to fix is the two hour block that she is up. I'm beginning to wonder if her good naps are because she is missing a chunk of time at night?? I know I've created the monster by feeding her at every waking, but I feel like if I don't get the A times right it will be hard to fix the Habitual waking. DD is ebf
How do I help us both get good quality sleep at night? Ideally I would love a 7:30 BT....and for her not to scream so loud and wake DD1
. Our last 3 days have looked like this:
Up at 7. During the day I woke her up from every nap
E 7:15
S 8:30 - 10:10
E 10:10
S 11:05 - 1:05
E 1:10
S 2:15 - 4
E 4:10
S 5:20 - 6
E 6
Bath
BT 7 snuck in a feed at 8 while she was sleeping
NW 9:40, 11:40 - 1:40 (she seemed very wide awake and wanted to be held upright for most of the time), 5:20
Wake 7:05
E 7:15
S 8:25 - 10:05
E 10:10
S 11:10 - 1
E 1:15
S 2:10 - 2:45 grandma wanted to put her down and that didn't work too well. She woke on her own
E 3, 3:30 in anticipation of her being asleep at 4
S 4:20 - 4:50 woke on her own
E 5
S 5:30 - 7
Bath
E 7:30
BT 8:10
NW 10:10 ( just before DF), 11:40 - 2 cried for most of the time
Wake up 7:05 I decided to just watch her cues and let her sleep then vs. based on the time which has been our method so far
E 7:10
S 8:20-10
E 10:10
S 11:05-1
E 1:05
S 1:50-3:10
E 3:50
E 4:40
S 4:50-6
E 6:05 bath
E 6:50, 7
BT 7:15
NW 8, 10:15, 11:50-1:45 (tried w2s at 11:15 but obviously not well enough) she was fussy for the first hr..and I kept trying to feed
eventually I just left her to chat/mantra cry in the crib and she slept an hour later
Help please....