Thank you Katet.
That is the situation. My husband and I work together and our office is under the apartment of my mother-in-law who is with Marta from 8.30 to 18.00. we have lunch together and during the day she comes to visit us and also I go upstairs to stay some moments with her. It's her grandma to put her in her bed always without problems.
If I think about it in those days we have spent less time together tough cause we have lot of work.
I have already experimented Separation Anxiety at 11 months when she had problems to fall asleep and se waked up early. With lots of patients and lots of peekaboo the thing passed so I thought it was gone.
In the next days I surely will stay more time with her but I don't know how manage the sleep time both nap and bed time.
Today for example I put her in the bed and wanted to stay with her some minutes but she refused to put down her head: I try to pretend to sleep, sing, caress her, speak but nothing. She pointed out the floors as she wants to exit from the bed.
Then I decided to try with a little WIWO: goodness me! She started crying, screaming, she was also tired and can't stand up well, she hit the bed with her head. SO I tried to take her in my arms. Impossible. She struggled, weeped with such a strength I couldn't take her. She was furious, quite hysterical.
I really was about to cry. After I don't know how much, when she was on the floor since she wouldn't neither to stay in my arms nor in bed she was about to fall asleep on the floor
Then I decided to go home and in the car she fell asleep.
Now, I would like not to repeat this experience any more. I really would like her to have her nap cause without it at night she is impossible.
But what if anything seems to work??