Hello everyone,
My wonderful baby girl is 13 weeks old (though she was actually born 2 weeks before time, so maybe shes considered as 11 weeks old, i am not sure).
she just started sleeping a bit better during the day - I had a hard time helping her sleep after she plays until recently and even when she slept it was max for 40-50 minutes and then she woke up crying. I found it again very hard helping her get back to sleep again.
It has gotten a bit better lately - I think I became a bit more calm myself, and started to see the sleepy signs of my baby (and shes grown up a bit too

. I am still working on helping her better but it's a process like everything , i understand that.
my question is - my baby can sometimes take a long or even very long nap during the day - for example yesterday her morning nap was 2 hours (with waking up in middle) and her second nap (around 11:30) was around 3 hours (no waking up in middle). today her morning nap was 1.5 hour (with waking up in middle). she also takes a short nap around 5-6
I do not know if i should wake her or not - i think her body knows what it needs - but i am not sure to be honest and i don't want this to mess up the day routine we have - though i am not very strict, i do not like to look at the watch all the time and count hours - yet again, I want to help my baby sleep well and be happy and calm.
Just so you know about the night - she eats (from bottle) around 18:30-19:30 (depends on how much she sleeps during day, so the feed time can shift), then takes a bath and goes to sleep until around between 3:00-4:30 AM (this changes) - then she sleeps again for about 3.5 hours until morning.
I do not dream feed.
Also, my baby is mostly a happy calm baby

she smiles a lot and plays during play time - she can fuss a bit before i put her to sleep anytime during day (but usually not really crying, just sometimes) gets "unquiet" during the afternoon (after the short nap) and then she can cry a bit, and sometimes cries a lot after bath time (which she loves).
I think I wrote too much... thank you for reading and for any advice

Shira