Hi - thanks for your reply
So we do:
7am wakeup
feed
awake time
sleep at 9 for 1.5hrs (wakes at 45m, most of time goes down again)
wakes 11
feed
awake time
sleep at 1 for 1.5hrs (wakes at 45m, most of time goes down again)
wakes at 3
feed
awake time
sleep at 5 (has been for 1.5hrs until this week, now starting to only do one 45m nap) - is this the answer??
awake at 6
feed about 6:30
bath
bedtime 7:30
will sleep in 45 min increments till about 10
10 dreamfeed (sometimes not very 'dreamy')
wakes at 1:30,2.30, 3, 3:30, 4:30, 6:30 - on a good night.
on a bad night many more wakeups.I have been wondering if it is a dummy issue. He didn't use to need it to fall asleep but now he cries whenever it is out and he needs to go back to sleep. It falls out naturally once he is asleep enough, but if he's not asleep enough, or he gets to a natural wake point, he needs it again. But surely if he was asleep more deeply, the dummy would not be such an issue?
We don't have a lovey. Was thinking that if we have to take the dummy off him, it would be good to get him used to this first to make things less traumatic? How do you get them to 'attach' to it?
Thanks heaps for any advice, experience