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Offline gejun

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Re: long NW need to repair,insomnic now?
« Reply #105 on: September 25, 2015, 23:54:25 pm »
I agree with you totally, yesterday he fell asleep at 18:15pm in seconds,   there was nw at 20:30, then sleeping through to 5:40am today, so this week fighting on BT and nap ,and slight sleep at early morning may be still all UT! will pushing to 12:00 today.

It's so nice talking with you, the experience you gave me about lsn baby is very useful, I am confident now.
I will offer a cn except he is very tired, now I am so fear of UT than OT!

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Re: long NW need to repair,insomnic now?
« Reply #106 on: September 26, 2015, 05:34:29 am »
Yes, UT has always caused us way more problems than OT.  When J is OT it's really obvious, he crashes and we all get a good night's sleep.  When he's UT I used to spend ages puzzling over what was going on and tweaking before getting anywhere,  all with nws and ews going on in the meantime!



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Re: long NW need to repair,insomnic now?
« Reply #107 on: October 08, 2015, 23:51:45 pm »
I need an advice of BT on one nap day, I think I made an mistake of cn, is it possible he still took it with tears , but in fact he needn't it?
I found after a 1h15~1h30mins nap, he may still took cn around 16:00~16;30, but with many tears recently.
so if after a sleeping through night from 19:00~5:30am,  then a 1h30min nap from 11:30~13:00, BT 18:00 0R 18:30?? the proper tired BT time is always 1.5h or 2h after the time LO taking the cn?

I think he may still accept a cn at 16:15~16:30 if I force it, but will lead to a bad night,  many short cry , stirred. 
I think a 1.5h nap in the 13hrs day is right if on consistent one nap, but at the first stage of one nap, should it be 12.5h or 13h ?

 last week, after a bad night, we got 1h25mins nap at 11:30am, I tried a BT 18:00, but got short cry at 20:20, then stirred or short nw at 2:00am, 3:00am, 4:00am, woke at 5;00am, then quiet or light sleep to 5:30, then cried 5:45. don't know if he was UT or OT at BT18:00, after two days like these , he was OT, I had to back one or two days of two naps days to get better but shorter nights. like a circle and hard to get out of it.

I feel so close to the answer, afraid of failing to trial.

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Re: long NW need to repair,insomnic now?
« Reply #108 on: October 09, 2015, 16:09:58 pm »
We always did fine on 13 hour days when nap dropping and had to go to 14 hour days on nap days. So I'd do BT at 6.30 as it seems your LO is similar with the short nights. I wonder if it's time to ditch the cn too? He's been going through the transition for a while now - he may well manage better without it now. What do you think?



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Re: long NW need to repair,insomnic now?
« Reply #109 on: October 10, 2015, 00:22:39 am »
I think 13hours is fine with 1.5hs nap too if he is normal status, but yesterday I suspected he may super OT this week , he slept 1h30mins with 6hrs after wu, I resettled at 52mins, he always cann't be resetted except super ot, slept from 18:10 to 6:00, some short cry or nws during night(21:30, 3:00:5:00maybe). this super long night indicated OT built up?

Does short cry or short nw always indicate ot?if he is Ot now, we may need one or two catch up days, which one you think better for catch up days?one nap day with EBT, or two nap day with normal BT?  I feel he can tack on with EBT like yesterday,but when should be EBT is tricky, if he is not so tired as yesterday ,he may not always tack on with 12hs night, may be 11.5h today.
I Prefer ditching the cn,  he fighted it even Ap.  If we can get a 1.5 nap today, maybe EBT, if shorter maybe still need a cn to normal BT?