UPDATE!
I've been capping the morning nap to 40 minutes since Thursday with the nap starting anywhere between 9.40 and 10 depending on how tired he is. Sunday he woke himself after 40 minutes so I didn't have to, but yesterday he woke after 30 minutes and was a rather grumpy boy! But I assume if I'm not having to wake him it means his body clock is adjusting to a shorter morning nap.
The afternoon naps have been a little hit and miss, starting anywhere between 2 and 2.40 depending on how much he fights it. I've noticed that he wakes like clockwork at 3.10, I assume it's because we live around the corner from a school and that's when they all walk past. I wouldn't have expected it to wake him as we have white noise on in his room to combat it. The first three days I went in at 3.10 and settled him back down with a shush pat the last two days he has had a little moan and squeak and settled himself back down until around 3.30/3.45.
On Friday he slept until 4.20 and then BT was horrific and he was wired until 8.30pm! I won't be letting him sleep past 4 again!!
Anyway, the EW....
We've had:
Thu 5.40 am
Fri: 5.30am
Sat 5.30am
Sun 4.50am
Mon 6am
Tue 4.50
Yesterday I was starting to think things were improving, I can live with a 6am start, then this morning knocked all the wind out of my sails. I did manage to BF him back to sleep until 6.50, but I don't want to be doing that every morning!
We've also been in a cycle of NW as well. Typically in the middle of the night, so anywhere between 11 and 2. When he's OT he tends to wake a lot in the beginning part of the night, so I don't think its that. OH is quick to blame teething and I think there is an element of truth in that, but he's been struggling with his teeth for weeks and weeks, I don't like to keep giving him ibuprofen in the night.
Last night when I went in around midnight he was really fidgety and did keep moaning and moving his head (he is a tummy sleeper) and just couldn't seem to get his face comfortable so I did give him some teething gel and a little ibuprofen but I hate doing it. It feels like we are having to "drug" him every night to get him to sleep and he still isnt sleeping through so I feel like we are medicating unnecessarily if that makes sense.
Any words of wisdom on next steps will be gratefully received. In the meantime we are going to keep on with the 40 minute morning nap and hope that something clicks for him soon!