My little boy has always been great at settling to sleep and we have been on one nap at a set time for over 8months. Gradually the time has gotten later. We are doing put down 1245 (quiet usually straight away and I guess asleep by 1300) then he started crying or talking a lot so he now does
Wake up. 7.30 (well get up...he is usually awake so not sure what time he wakes before shouting)
Nap put down 1245/1300 wake up at 1500 we always have to wake him
Put down for bed at 1930, asleep by 2000.
Bedtime was 1915 but he then would chat til gone past 2015 so we moved it later. He has always been higher sleep needs. He is 23 months. Speaking quite a bit mow but no other developments, no teeth that are obvious.
The problem is now at bedtime at some naps I get hysterical crying when I leave. But not his dad. I fell into the just one more story trap and am now trying to break it as one more is now two or three more.
I make it clear that he will have one story then put him in his cot...he then starts crying hysterically. The last two nights I went in and calmed him but saying it's night time and stroking his face but didn't get him out of the cot. And then eventually after am hr of in and out stayed for a little while and edged closer and closer to the door. Tonight I noticed if I shut the door the crying would start but leave it open and he would chat to himself (is still chatting now 30mins later with the odd call for mummy)
Is this routine issues?
Thanks for help xx