Hi All,
I'm really struggling with the 30 minute wake up into every.single.nap. My LO is 3.5 months old and this has been happening for about 2 weeks and I really feel like I don't know what to do. We have been following EASY since week 4 and it has been going well. But her naps are so exhausting (for both of us). She goes down, wakes up 30 minutes later ON THE DOT, and then the next 45-60 minutes are spent trying to get her back to sleep, which works about 50% of the time. I have increased her A time to 1:45 this week, sometimes 2:00. So, the scenario is: wakes up at 30 mins, give back paci or rock for 5-7 minutes, put back down, wake up 5-10 mins later, repeat x 3. Eventually, after about 3 attempts, I just let her get up because I don't know what else to do! Other times, she falls into a deep sleep the last attempt and sometimes sleeps another 1-2 hours! I feel like EVERY time, she is still tired, since as soon as I pick her up she falls asleep in my arms.
So I guess my first question is- when she wakes up every time after 30 minutes, do I just suck it up and attempt to get her back to sleep for 45-60 minutes or as long as it takes? Or should I just get her up after that first initial 30 minute wake up?
And my second question is- IF she gets up after that 30 minute wake up and is up for good- do I wait to feed her? For instance, if it looks like this:
7:00: Eat, up for the day
7:00-8:45: Awake, playing, happy
8:45-9:15: Sleep
*If she gets up for good at this point, should I feed her at 9:15 and start from there with 1:45-2:00 awake time, etc? Or wait to feed her until 10:00?
I feel like I'm seriously losing my mind and like I spend ALL DAY trying to get the poor girl to rest!!!
Any help and advice is greatly appreciated.
Thank you SO much.
xo