My 3 year old has ALWAYS been a problem sleeper- just doesn't sleep much. For most of his life he slept under the lower end of the bell curve for sleep for his age group. He generally wakes up at 6am, but goes through phases of waking up as early as 4:45am (wanting to play, but also acting tired), and goes to sleep 9-9:30pm, and sometimes wakes up at night. We have tried everything- black out curtains, white noise, etc. He sleeps by himself, but definitely wants us to be there while he falls asleep, but we try to avoid it. The few times I have slept with him in his bed he has slept in much later. I have been thinking about the fact that all animals, and for most of our history, people, sleep with their young. Perhaps if I slept in his room he would sleep longer? 3 years of sleep deprivation (for us and him) is making me consider starting to co-sleep (me sleeping in his room on a trundle bed, not him coming into our bed) at age 3- is that crazy?
Thanks so much for your advice!