My "textbook" daughter is 10 weeks old. She has been on 3.5 hour EASY since birth which she moved into on her own with ease (she will not feed if I try 3 hour intervals). She is formula fed.
She is not keen to have her day naps in her cot and really only has a complete nap in my arms/sling. I have taken the advice on this forum about the "fourth trimester" and not pushed the need for independent sleep yet, however with the aid of a white noise cd have successfully gotten her to sleep her first cycle of each nap in cot, after which she will not go back to sleep so I hold her for the remainder of the nap. I have tried ssh/pat which she does not like and moved instead to Harvey Karp's methods of sucking (paci) and rocking her whilst in bed. She is calmed very easily by this, however still does not return to sleep.
I am keen to move to independent sleep at 12 weeks (I can't keep feeding my 4 year old toast for dinner! - we have no other family to help out).
I'm wanting to know - at the 12 week mark what do I do to get started? How do I break the current need for a held sleep? Does something just 'kick in' and change for her at 12 weeks? If so, what?
Our current day is as follows:
E 7am
A 45-60 mins
S 8am (1st cycle in cot, then after unsuccessful resettling, sleeps in arms)
E 10.30am
A 60 mins
S 11.30 (results as above)
E 2pm
A 60 mins
S 3pm (results as above)
E 5.30pm
A Bath, Cuddle
S 6.45/7pm (into cot relatively easy - no wake ups until feeding time)
DF 10pm (never drinks much)
NF 3am
Thanks, Emma