Hi.
I just cannot seem to take my eye off the ball for one second with this kid. I was posting on another thread for ages as DS for months was taking ages to fall asleep at BT - stripping, throwing everything out of cot etc until he would eventually start whinging and we would have to go in ( he would nod off on his own in the end though)- and then he would EW too. So his nights could sometimes only be 10 hrs. 9 times out of 10 he would go down for his nap fine and we would cap it at 2 hrs. So his EASY was like this:
WU between 5.30 - 6.15 (6.15 would be a good day! )
S 11.30/12 for 2 hrs capped
BT - in bed around 6.45/7 - mess about for around an hr every night so asleep about 8
Then we had a glorious week away where for some reason he would either go straight to sleep at BT or mess about but not need us to go into his room at all. And he would wake after 6am. It was fab! But he reverted to normal as soon as we got home.
At the wknd I accidentally woke him from his nap at 1hr 15. He messed around at BT as usual that night but - shock! - he slept til 7am the next day! ! Amazing! So I thought it was worth experimenting with this length nap for a few days. For the first few days he slept in every morning (6.30am-6.50) but I he was also messing around at nap time. At first he messed around at nap time but went down pretty easily at BT. Then he messed around for both but woke at a reasonable time. Now he messes around for both AND wakes up early (about 6). I should say that after the 1hr 15 naps he does look tired and wants a cuddle for a long time afterwards but is otherwise fine. So yes I guess the shorter naps could be causing OT but for goodness sake, longer naps don't work either!!!!
So when I stared the shorter naps EASY was
WU 6.30
S 30mins/1hr messing about -asleep between 12.30/13.00 capped at 1hr 15
BT minimal messing about or straight to sleep - asleep by 7.30pm
Now EASY is more like:
WU 6am
S mess about for an hr, asleep by 13.00
BT mess about for an hr or more, asleep by 20.00
What should I do?
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By the way, I've only been doing the shorter naps for a week.