Hello again to you all, here I am again asking for your help!
After a month of pu/pd, we are still not sleeping...
I didnt have the chance of trying to leave the room before DD would fall asleep as things progressively got worse and worse. DD was waking up every 2-3 hrs, but now she wakes up every hour, stay awake for 1-2h per night and then maybe she sleeps 2h and it's morning...It's a real nightmare, believe me. Also, she seems to be more upset than usual during the day, she always wants to have me very very close, though she naps always fine (2 times a day for at least 1h, more often 1h20min each). My husband has developed the (bad) habit of feeding her at a certain point of the night/early morning (say between 4 and 6) when he doesnt know how else to calm her. Is it going to do more harm than good in the long term? She only drinks one third to half of her usual feed, which is already a small amount (never more than 100ml), so i can safely say that she is not that hungry when he feeds her. He says she now wants it and looks for the bottle if he doesnt give it to her.
What do you suggest we do? Can it be separation anxiety? If so, how do we cope with it? How long is it going to last for, typically? Should My husband console her or should it be myself? I mean, is it better or worse if she sees me when she wakes in the night?
Please help me understand what's happening, why things are not improving and how to avoid screwing up completely!!!
Many many thanks in advance.