Hello - thank you for your response, and I'm sorry I didn't respond sooner. It was his 3rd Birthday and party on Saturday, so things were a little crazy here this weekend.
Anyway, I'm actually struggling to tell if he's OT Or UT at naptime. He's definitely acting pretty strange and hyper, but I can't tell how much of that is related to sleep vs. just being a 3-year-old now and going through some of that.
I have noticed; however, on the days he does finally fall asleep (yesterday and today) it doesn't happen until about 2:30 or so. Also, both yesterday and today someone had to go into his room and talk to him (or in my case get really frustrated...I'm NOT having shiny mom moments lately). I think if we left him to his own devices he wouldn't have fallen asleep either day. In general, he is super whiny and pretty cranky, which is what leads me to believe he's not getting enough total sleep.
Part of me wonders if I just need support/advice for having a 3-year-old, although I do think sleep is a pretty big component of this. I definitely agree that I was super lucky to be getting a 2 hour nap at almost 3, I just didn't think he'd drop it altogether practically overnight!!!