Except it took us 7 years to block it out, lol.
LOL! Why do we go back a second time knowing how difficult it was the first time?!
I'm not sure what to tell you about her suck. I'm assuming they checked for tongue tie when they corrected the lip tie?
Yes, her tongue is fine apparently! Despite the terrible feeding she is putting on weight well and steadily so I'm just going to let go of the stress of that and put it down to her being less than lady-like with her feeding.
What's her sleeping set-up? In the crib? In her room? In your room? Blackout blinds? White noise? Just thinking if she's a touchy sleeper like my DD1, maybe we can tweak things?
Ok, so she's in an adjoining room without a door to my room. Whether you call it a room, more like a walk in wardrobe (we live in a a very small 1940's home). It fits her crib, change table and a chair but very squishy. I assume she doesn't know any better given she's the smallest thing in the room
. She has black out blinds but some light can filter in through the open doorway from my room but I've put up a dark towel to try and combat that. White noise/lullaby music, doesn't seem to make much of a difference but we have lullabys on - only because she's so close to us that DH and I find it hard to sleep with the white noise.
At this age, I think she's still 'supposed' to be on 3 hr EASY. But you could always change the pattern if she's not hungry yet. You could even feed before naps just not feed to sleep.
So I should be waking her at that 3hr mark? It's just that by the time I settle or resettle, she's awake again! She also feeds a lot better closer to 4 hourly. I fed her this morning at the 3hr mark when she woke up and she was so disinterested. We are doing a bit of feeding sporadically (not to sleep of course) and includes a few feeds before a nap.
This is why I'm finding our EASY so horrific. I'd hardly call it an EASY. more of a mess than anything! Today looked like this as we were out at the health nurse, then christmas shopping so a MASSIVE crash in the afternoon and woke after 40minutes at bedtime;
NF: 12.30
NW: 3.00 - replugged and went straight back to sleep. Should I have fed her here?
NF: 5.50 - took a while to resettle with multiple dummy replugs.
WU: 8.00
E: very little; topped up throught awake time but really didn't want anything
A: Health nurse appointment
S: 10.30 for 20 minutes in the car
A: pram at the shops
S: 12.00 - 12.30
E: 1.00; still fed poorly (probably from lack of sleep and acted disinterested)
A: pram/car
S: 2.00 - 2.45. Resettled with multiple replugs until she finally slept from 3pm-6pm
E: 6.00
A: bath
S: 7.20, asleep by 7.30 but woke at 8.00pm and we spent another 45-60 minutes replugging and settling (leaving the room to see what she'd do) until she finally went to sleep again.
Will see what the night brings....
Just also wanted to say thank you for the ongoing support.
I know i sound like negative nancy but I really am doing my best...