And you haven't found any APOP that works consistently, right?
You could certainly ditch the paci if you think it would help. I'm just not sure it's going to help that much, yk?
Does she give you clear hunger cues? Or are they all mixed up with being OT? If they're all mixed up, I would go ahead and do a stricter feeding schedule if you think that would help you. It may also help settle her sleep into more of a pattern. Of course, follow her cues first, though.