*PLEASE HELP*
I'm experiencing a MAJOR set-back with the effectiveness of the shush-pat, even for the early morning nap when everything normally used to run quite smoothly (and lo is back to sleeping for 1hr15 or 1hr30). I post it in this thread, as you said to keep my questions in the one post, but I'd be interested to find out other people's experiences and the title of this thread is not representative of this issue. My lo seems to have grown an aversion to the shush-pat to the point I'm afraid he is starting to seriously become frightened of his cot, as he now starts crying almost the moment I put him down. Where the shush-pat has been very effective in calming, soothing and sending him to sleep for over a week, since about 3 days he simply goes hysterical. Apart from crying (screaming), he arches his back, sling his arm around (he's on his side for the patting, but tries to get on his back, pushing against my hands). It's even at BT when he used to fall asleep within a minute - it has turned into an hour of screaming! I am so desperate (have been standing next to the cot in tears a lot!) I just don't know what to do and it's so bad that I resorted to putting him to sleep in my bed on the breast (!!!!!) THE very thing I never wanted to do again. How do I calm him without resorting to some form of AP? With the PU/PD I would also pat his back and shush, so I can't do that either. He's still not able to fall asleep alone, he always starts gurning, then mantra crying, then serious crying, but when I then start the patting he just goes crazy ... What can I do???