My son will be 3 next week. That's also when my due date for #2 is. My son will have quiet time everyday where he's expected to play quietly in his room or sleep. It used to be that if he didn't fall asleep, I would put him to bed earlier that night and he would still sleep all night long until the next morning. But now, he'll wake up consistently when he doesn't take a nap. He has preschool T/TR. He has the option to eat lunch there and I usually let him stay until 1pm on Tuesdays, but he hasn't been eating his lunch, so I think I'm going to pick start skipping that and just pick him up at 12 instead. With that said, I think preschool riles him up and makes it hard for him to nap. But he also doesn't nap some days when he doesn't have preschool, so I don't know what to think. I know he still needs a nap bc he has the night wakings when he doesn't. I'm starting to get nervous with the new baby coming bc he only wants me in his room and freaks out when my husband goes in. A typical day for him is waking at 7, laying down for a nap around 12 or 1...when he does take a nap, it takes him forever to fall asleep and sometimes he's not asleep until 230 or 3. When that happens, I let him sleep until 4, but then he's going to sleep much later around 8 and not falling asleep until 930 sometimes. He won't night wake then, but he'll still wake up at 7. When he doesn't nap, I'll have him asleep by 6:45-7 so that it's a 12 hour day. And sometimes hell night wake around 1:30-2 and other times it's around 4. I give him some water and then try to just tuck him in, but other times he's upset and wants me to hold him. Like I said, when my husband goes it, it gets him realiy upset. Not sure what I'm supposed to do when the baby comes bc I know I can't hold him forever, nor do I want to bc I know I'll be waking soon with the new baby.
So what can I do about his naps?
What should I do about his night wakings? And so that my husband can help too?