Thank you for your feedback. DH was working with her at first and then I reread the PUPD stuff and realized we had to change for her age. So we've been working on not actually picking up or having her fall asleep with our hand on her. It seems to be working well, at least for her going to bed and staying asleep in the early hours. However, she still has 2-3 NW every night. I'm sure I need to be better about not feeding at that first one, but I'm so tired often that I just can't do it. Her first NW is usually around 11/11:30 which means I've had an hour or 1.5hrs of sleep and so I'm hitting a sleep cycle weird.
Sunday night we had the best night ever. She woke at 11:30, I was able to resettle her without feeding, and then she was up at 2:30 (I fed) and then 7am for the day. It seems she does best on 4hr A times with 1 long nap. The problem is that I have a school run around the time her nap is due, or just after.
Like today, she's up at 7:45. Which means she would need to nap at 11:45, but I have the school run at 12:15. So I feel so stuck. And then on days when I can manage for her to make it until I'm back, I still have to pick DS up (most days) at 3, so leaving at 2:45. And that's a long time until BT. So anyways. IDK what to do! Any ideas?
Since she was awake Monday at 7, I put her down just before 11 and then had to wake her at 12:15 to take DS to school. She had a CN later. She had several NW from 3:30-6am, until she finally slept a little longer.