She normal has flat sleep on me which I need stop due to when moved she wakes so last week been doing the in cot awake gt fall sleep self but omg it's grating on me.
Sorry, I'm not sure what you're saying here?
Since you're busy with other kids and it sounds like it's tough to get her to sleep, do you think it would help if you rocked or fed her to sleep and then laid her down gently? If she doesn't sleep in the pram, do you have a sling or carrier you could try for the school run?