Yes he settled better for the morning nap at 3.5hrs but not in the afternoon despite being obviously tired so I settled (by which I mean using words and shh pat him in cot) which didn't take too long but he woke upset after 30mins and the rest of the afternoon was very long as he was grumpy.
After reading your post last night I decided to feed only at 11 and 3. I don't think he is ready for just one feed and I don't want to do that given when I have been feeding him in the night he does take a full feed.
But last night was a disaster. He went to bed at 6.45pm with no real problems and slept til 10. Decided to resettle as not a feed time. But over 40 mins he resettled 3 times and fell asleep for about 5 mins only to wake crying again. I decided he could be hungry so fed at 10.45pm. He then woke at 1pm and I fed him
not good I know. He then woke at 2.30 and I resettled him only for him to wake at 3.30 am and I fed him again, but he woke 10mins later crying and I managed to resettle him. He then woke at 5.30 and I could not resettle so got him up. So not good in terms of feeding him at 1am when I wasn't supposed to and him waking so often - I wonder if he was uncomfortable?
We have tried getting daddy in to resettle but LO got hysterical so we stopped that and daddy is in the spare room currently as he works and being woken every 1-2hrs each night was impacting on his ability to function at work. I have asked daddy to sleep in with me over the weekend to give me some support to not feed when I'm not supposed to as I need a nudge, as when I'm half asleep I am taking the easy way out.
Good point on feeding routine which I will change today. He has been off solids a little last couple of days..I'm wondering if he is teething again although can't get a look in his mouth to see!