Yes I have something in mind, I just didn't want to bombard you with all the info all at once!!
So, plan.
1. Keep a log of the night time feeds.
2. Start ssh/pat for naps
3. Use the SLOW method a little more
4. Establish a decent routine for a couple of days so we can see a pattern then we can tweak as necessary. Remember this will take time to get right.
5. Daddy to help at the weekend for NW's
Number 1 we've covered. No. 2 .. This will also take a bit of time getting it right. Some bubbas prefer a hand on the shoulder, or stroke their hair, or a pat on the bum whilst sshing. Have aread of that link I posted before. We'll use that on put down for a nap if she's upset and/or if she wakes early from a nap ok?
No. 3. I'll post a link about this one too. Tracy believed we shouldn't rush in but stop, listen, observe and wait to see what happens. This is not to say we let our child keep crying but we need to decipher what they are trying to say. This goes for during the day too. But for naps she may just be moaning or mantra crying which is different than a usual cry and those we don't need to help with, as it's her way of trying to settle. Same goes for NW's too. Once you try it and hang back just that little bit you'll notice when you're needed. At first it may be all the time given she's used you as a prop, but eventually that will get less and less. My DD used to have an almighty groan when dropping off and it took me quite a while to realise she was going off to sleep as she started crying when I got there. I just presumed I caught it early but in actual fact she was probably just hacked off with me
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No. 5. We'll come up for a plan for this later on in the week.
Back to no. 4... I would like to try this for the next two days if we can. It will need to be tweaked, but some consistency will help you I think. Are you swimming on Tuesday or is it just during term time ie classes?
Wu 7 (wake her if not already awake, sorry
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A 3hrs
S 10-11.30
A 3hrs
S 2.30-4
A 3hrs
BT 7
This will give her the potential for a 12-hr night. We really don't know what she prefers right now, but time will tell. Some don't ever like more than 11hrs. Also, this is just a baseline routine. We'll be able to tell in a few days whether this suits her or not. Also she may short nap, just try and use ssh/pat to get her back to sleep and keep a note of the time she woke and how her mood is. Try ssh/pat for a good 20mins (again, sorry), to see if she'll go back down. If not, don't worry. Get her up and do another 3hrs A. This also will be very helpful to find out how long she naps for the next nap, so it's all useful information, don't be too disheartened ok?
So wdyt? Doable?
P.s I just want to say before I forget that A is activity time or awake time, so time from eyes open to eyes closed irrelevant of that activity happens in the A (awake) time ok? Xx
S.L.O.W. down (and Appreciate your Baby's Language)