Hi ( and happy new year!)
We are starting to lose it, our DS3 is 13.5mths old and driving us to distraction...
He has been fed to sleep and when he woke at night most of his life, through a variety of illnesses and teething it seemed the only way for any respite. We were using the holidays to get him back on track, we have been gradually reducing the night feeds to now he just gets water when he wakes and 5/7 goes over, and we no longer feed him to sleep for his nap or at night.
HOWEVER..... He still wakes multiple times a night, and is is up for the day at 530 without fail, today he wouldn't go back over at 430 so that was him up.
He's transitioning 2-1 nap, but no combination makes it easier at night. 415-430hrs after waking in the morning he goes down, for 1.5, 2, 2.5 hrs sleep, we wake him each time to see if one works better. Then he gets a CN 4hrs after waking as with EW he will be OT by BT if not. A typical day is:
WU 530
S 10-1130/12
CN 4-430
BT 7pm
This can vary slightly but is usually accurate within 30 mins, sometimes he is in bed at 630 if he has woken from the CN at 330/4pm etc
I just don't know what to do, it seems the more sleep he gets during the day, the more frequent the NWs, sometimes every 2 hrs!
And he will never be able to move to 1 nap if the EWs persist..
We are at a real loss and don't know what to try next. Back to work on Monday and no further on, is so dispiriting, especially as the whole house is so tired after the last week and months.
Any thoughts are advice welcome, what is the ideal day and we can just aim
For that and stick to it, come hell or high water?
Thanks in advance.