Never mind how we got here, what can we do about it now?
Our 7 wk-old will not sleep more than 20 minutes anywhere but on our chest. Here is our usual routine for naps or bedtime:
- Watch for tired cues (VERY difficult with our spirited baby)
- Take into dark nursery
- Sing a couple of songs then place in swing for while (until drowsy, which sometimes doesn't happen--he goes straight from awake to fussy)
- Swaddle
- Rock and paci until asleep (or at least VERY drowsy) in our arms
- Place in crib
- WAAAAHHHHHH after 10-20 minutes
- Soothe until asleep again
- Place back in crib
- WAAAAHHHHHH after 10-20 minutes
- Soothe again, place in crib again, cry again, repeat until we give up and just place him on our chest and actually sleep
This pattern holds true for daytime naps and for sleep at night. We hardly sleep at all now. We try our best to give him the sleep he needs, but it's always at the expense of our own sleep--we have to place him on our chest if we want him to sleep, but now we can't!
We are exhausted and desperate. Please help!!!
**EDIT: Here are some things (accidental parenting, yes) we have tried that don't work:
- Co-sleeping
- Sling/carrier
- Swing
- Fisher Price Rock and Play
Also, the pediatrician thinks he has some mild reflux, so he is on Zantac and we make sure he is upright for 20-30 minutes after a meal. This seems to work, and we aren't sure that reflux is the reason he wakes up so quickly every time. He will do this even a couple of hours after a meal--shouldn't the reflux be a non-issue that long after a meal?