Thank you for all your help! All actually seems to be going pretty well these days...the one question I have is this...she has been waking up about 3-3.5 hours after her DF at night-so anywhere between 1:15 and 1:45am. She cries some and I do PU/PD until she seems to start settling back into sleep but then she starts just fussing and doing these little moans and cries and she rolls around her crib or rubs her face in the mattress. This goes on and on and on and eventually she will start getting louder and there will be some sharp short cries interspersed in the moans and fussing. I've tried putting my hand on her back, holding her hands down, keeping her from rolling, sticking my finger in her mouth(she gnaws on it like crazy when I do this) and eventually after 30m min to an hour of her fussing and moaning and occasionally going quiet and tricking us into thinking she's fallen back asleep only to start all over again, I will eventually feed her whereupon she takes a full feed from both sides and then falls asleep until morning around 630 or 7. My hubby would like me to just feed her right away because he has to work in the morning and cant fall asleep with her fussing and crying while I try to sleep train her. Do you think this would be ok or should I be trying to get her back to sleep on her own without feeding her at first? I've yet to get her to do that actually-last night I tried for almost an hour. She isn't really full on crying-just fussing like she's uncomfortable. I gave her Tylenol at her DF last night thinking maybe she's teething but she still woke up.
Also, one last question-I still have her taking 3 naps a day albeit 2 short ones of about an hour then a longer one of 1.5 hours in the afternoon because of having to pick up my son from school. It seems to work for us but would that be messing her up at all? She sometimes is only up for 2hrs and 15 minutes in between but goes to sleep easily on her own and stays asleep until I wake her up.