the sock with the paci is GENIUS!!! I will give it a try..
The problem is..that there is no pattern. Sometime she falls asleep by herself beautifully and 30/40 min she is awake.. some time, like right now, she fought sleep from the moment I put her down in her crib (she was calm when she was on my shoulder). I put her down and she started to paddle with her feet but not crying( it's a new feature...she loves doing it..)..after a while..she is screaming and push with her feet like she was uncomfortable. I tried to calm her down (Sh/pat doesn't work with her..usually I gently rub her forehead and she relaxes..or at least, she used to
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Even if, when the crying gets very loud, I pick her up..she doesn't stop (to stop..she had to be in ad upright position..looking over my shoulder).
When calm,I put her back in her crib. Started squirming but finally gave up... but she was still fighting sleep: so she rest for few seconds..then complain again,I rubbed her forehead, she calmed down and looks like sleeping...and so on for few times.
She finally was asleep. I had the time to had a quick chat with my dad on FaceBook..and when I looked in the camera she was moving and having jolts (like u said)..then..she was awake: really awake. Calm in her crib...looking at the camera (which is pretty creepy
) Trying to eat her hands (the paci was long gone) After 15 min..she started crying and there was no way to put her back.
I nursed her (1 hr in advance..but I'm having the suspect that she is not eating enough lately..specially when she sleep so bad).
After that I changed her diaper, but her in her babyseat for a while and then she started complaining: I knew it was time to try again.
I swaddled her (she complained) held her for a while until she was calm, put her down and she started paddling straight away. Since I can't make the room super dark (unfortunately) I put my hand in front of her eyes and rubbed her forehead. This time it worked... and finally she is sleeping
It was the same yesterday: one nap is usually very bad the other is better.
Let's see now how long is this going to be...
It doesn't look like to be a paci issue though...she starts crying with the paci in her mouth...and then she loose it. I have to find what it is.
All the sign are of over-tiredness to me: but it's very hard to understand when she is getting tired because usually she smiles and coos a lot!
Today's goal is to re-establish a good soothing routine that was lost in despair