Well, it seems as if my posts are always on the sleeping board! DD is now almost 18 months old (next week). She has been an independent sleeper since about 4 months old and slept wonderfully until she turned 12 months old. Since that time, we have really struggled with 30-40 minute naps, NWs and EWs. It seems as if there will be a period of 4-7 days where she may nap ok and sleep through the night without waking, and I get excited as if we have finally made a breakthrough! However, it never seems to last. 😓
I will most the schedule I try to follow most days when I can for you to take a look at:
Wake up: she wakes anywhere between 5:45 - 6:45 am most days but I don't let her out of her crib until at least 6:30 am
E 7:15 am breakfast
E 9:15 am snack
E 11:15 am lunch
S 12 - 1:15 pm (her naps lately have been anywhere from 1 to 1.5 hours usually with the most common being 1 hr 15 min and rarely had a 2 hour nap)
E 2:15 pm snack
E 5:15 pm dinner
E 6:30 bedtime sippy of milk
S 7 pm (on the bed but usually asleep around 7:15 pm)
First of all, does this look like a normal
schedule for an almost 18 month old or does something look really off? I have tried adjustments everywhere I can think of for the past 6 months and no one thing really seems to help. I eventually gave up and thought it is something we will just have to wait out....but I'm exhausted!!!! I have been trying to do a set nap at 12 pm no matter what time she wakes recently as a set nap was suggested to me for her age instead of going by wake times now.
She has been waking at night around 4:30 am or so. Last night, she was up from 4:45 -5:45 am and went back to sleep until 7 am. She was just laying in bed bed whining until I would go in and use the sleepy phrase. Every time I left thought, she would wait a few minutes and get upset again....sometimes standing up and crying. If she wakes at 5:30 am or after doing this, she usually can not be resettled. As far as naps, she almost always wakes in the middle after 40-50 min or so...sometimes I can resettle her and sometimes not. She still takes a pacifier only for sleeping. Do you think this is ok or may be part of our problem with sleeping?
The sleepless nights are really wearing on me and DH now as well. As I've mentioned previously, I have an autoimmune disorder that requires me to get plenty of rest to feel okay so I've been feeling pretty weak again lately. Also, we have been discussing wanting to TTC again soon. We both want another child; however, I'm not sure how my already tired body will handle it at this point! I'm sorry if I'm rambling...I'm typing on my phone as I sit on carpool line waiting for DS as this seems to be the only chance I have to do it lately!!! Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!!! Thanks so much!!!!