DS2 is nearly 12 weeks and a predictable-ish pattern is starting to emerge
. I can generally get 3 naps (early I know, but he has long A times), with the first normally being a decently long one in the sling at the yard. The other two are hit and miss but a lot of the time I can get one in the bouncy chair with white noise on. Generally we are looking at 3-4hrs of day sleep, with bedtime around 6.30pm and wake up around 7.30am. This week I've tried to work with a set wake time (more or less) to help make the rest of the day more predictable.
We feed around 3.5hrs but I will happily bring that forward and we normally get an extra feed squeezed into the day that way. He will often go 5-6 hrs over the first part of the night.
Naps in the morning and afternoon are realistically only ever going to be on the go, due to horses and school run. And at weekend most will be based around DS1's activities. But a lot of days we can squeeze in one nap at home.
Which brings me to my need to plan! Currently we are so way off IS it is untrue. In the bouncy chair he needs the vibrate function on plus me rocking it plus white noise to go off, and he has not once been able to transition between sleep cycles in it. On me he might, in the sling he will, but not elsewhere.
At night he is in bed with me. I'm going to embrace it for now as I am so much more rested as a result, but by the summer he probably needs to be in his own bed. And it means that I'm getting no evening at all, not even the chance to brush my teeth or go to the toilet once he's asleep.
I think that with a bit of help I can get him to sleep in his baby hammock instead of his bouncy chair; I can use the white noise and bounce the hammock for him at first. We've been starting to cuddle up with a muslin at night so he can have that, too.
My question is, when do I start to try and make the change? I've only just managed to get him to nap in the chair, but if the 4 month sleep regression is coming should I be trying to get him into the hammock before then?
I want to start with the at-home naps and eventually progress to him sleeping at least the early part of the night in the hammock. Does that sound ok?