The last two days have been pretty much th same, I hate to report, except she is not sleeping as well as th nights previous ( when she crashed!)
Yesterday she lasted 40 mins for nap one ( 2.15 wake time before... Since she had had an early waking). Nap two was 20 mins then 5 minutes soothing and then another 28(?), nap three was the best of them all ( not that I want to be doing that many naps at this age) at 60 mins - her wake time was 2 hr 45 mins, due to me being out and then needing to feed her. Her night was strange though- she woke 2.5 hrs after BT crying so hard. DH went up since it was not time to feed and to give mommy a break, but she starts to really loose it, she was crying so hard and flaying arms and pushing him away, but when I went up she started to calm right down and fell asleep in my arms aft some cuddles and a quick feed.
Is she at that age now where she is becoming attached to me? I felt so bad that DH felt rejected.
She woke again another 2 hrs later and then at 5:15 ( feeding) and an hour later for good.
Needless to say she was OT this morning I think ( we all were!!!) she went down at 8:30 for nap one and it lasted just 40 mins again! Nap two was worse 30 mins - she was clearly OT as she took forever to go down . Nap 3 was no better. She was hard to put down at BT tonight and needed a lot of rocking.
My husband and I are beginning to really argue about all of jpg his and I am getting emotional
He really think we need to let her just CIO as many of friends have done, but I don't think that that will solve things and I don't know if I could bear it. This is really becoming a big source of stress and a wedge between us:(
Do you think that her falling asleep independently wealthy of really help naps? Usually she does well at night ( she used to anyways!) and only woke for feelings. I thought that day sleep and night sleep are different, but now I am not so sure. I think that the early waking a contribute to at least a part of the problem- it makes it so difficult to decide how much wake time she needs to get a good first nap!!
Any ideas? I really don't want to be fighting everyday with lo for naps and then DH about parenting- so exhausting physically and emotionally
Thanks for listening.
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