Hello.....so......more advice is needed!!
Neither twin can now sleep on his own. Little twin from about 10:30 and big from about 3. They want to sleep in our bed, but fight if they are both there, and have taken to following me round the house as I try and settle the baby. At half 4 this morning they were on a duvet on the floor in the baby's room as I fed him, but they wind each other up and so the day began then, for all of us. Not cool.
They go to sleep perfectly happily in their beds. They have a groclock, and are allowed into our bed for cuddles as soon as it is yellow, and if they stay in their own beds all night they get a very special sparkly sticker. We have been doing that for about 2 weeks and I have given out 3 stickers I think!
I am leaning towards a short but tough phase of rapid return, cold turkey sleeping in their own beds. I am prepared to sleep on the floor in there for a while while they get used to it again and do a kind of GW. But DH (the enemy of sleep training!!) thinks they are doing this because they need us and that we should just have them in with us, and that they are genuinely frightened (there is often some muttering about monsters in the night, I think it's just messing around!). I appreciate he likes the cuddles as he doesn't see much of them at the moment....but I think it's not really doing any of us any good.
Any thoughts? I don't want them to be frightened and upset at night....but we are all getting tireder and tireder. I wondered about a special night light or something that will protect them from the monsters, then there would be no need to come in with us.