haha! yes it really IS amazing isn't it?
I saw a good few LOs struggling with lumps or mashed food when DS was a toddler, they were still on puree beyond 12 months, it was such a struggle for the parents. And yes, hand them a bit of finger food and they just eat it
I'm so pleased to hear you sounding so positive and enjoying this experience.
I just noticed on another thread you mentioned meat, not sure if anyone covered that here or not, so I wanted to say chicken breast (maybe those mini fillets as you could freeze raw in individual bags then defrost one at a time when needed) boiled is nice and soft. I know boiled doesn't sound all that appetising but it stays so moist, we cook it this way for the grown ups too as it is so moist. If you used a full chicken fillet I would suggest slicing into strips before cooking as that helps to ensure it is cooked all the way through - it is super fast too, much quicker than other methods.
I think your DH eats meat, if I'm right, then so long as it is not highly processed and salty it is fine to offer LO some. My DS had roast beef in a pub lunch place at 6 months. I took steamed veggies with us so that I wasn't giving him veg cooked with salt etc but he got the meat from my mum and very happily gummed at it until there was just a strip of gristly fatty stuff remaining.
Slow cooked lamb shank was another big hit with DS, very soft but pieces big enough to pick up and get to his mouth.
In fact mine was not a meat lover and still isn't really, but certain things he does enjoy. I use beans and lentils to up his protein.