Hey Hun, sounds like you are having a rough time of it right now- ((hugs)). I do think having a look at the routine is a good idea, sleep training is really only effective when LO is tired, but not too tired. Nothing on earth will make a not-yet-tired baby sleep, and even the best independent sleepers will need help at times when overtired. Don't be afraid to offer that help, even when independent sleep is the ultimate goal. What you want is for him to know that you will always respond when he really needs you, so that gives him the confidence and security to do it on his own. What sort of sleep training have you been trying? Just wondering if there's something there we might be able to help you with too? Has he ever gone to sleep on his own previously?