Oh Bella, thank you so very much for helping me! I really appreciate it and sorry I'm such a ball of stress... This sleep obsession is something I'm working on but I can't seem to shake it, even after 3 years. Probably because of how poorly my son slept and still does at 3.5yo.
After her 4am wake and mini feed this morning our day has gone pretty well with the A push! I didn't read your message until after first nap so I pushed second A to 2.45 as you suggested and she napped 1hr15min. I assumed I should do an EBT of 6.30 but she rolled around for almost an hour before falling asleep. I really don't know what that last A should be?!
WU: 7.30
Nap 1: 10.00; 10.05-11.35
Nap 2: 2.17; 2.25-3.43
BT: 6.25; 7.22pm asleep
NW: 4.00am. Chatted, rolled around for over 30 minutes before crying when I fed her.
NF: 4.50am (150ml drained!)
S: 5.15am
WU: 7.20
OOB: 7.36
Nap 1: 10.00; 10.10 - 10.38 asleep.
Nap: 10.00; 10.10-10.38. Resettled herself and slept 10.55-11.36
^^ cried and was upset/tired all morning.
Unfortunately my 3yo DS is really sick so we all slept in today. Not off to a good start routine wise
Could you please help me with a couple of things?
1) should I always wake at 7am? I suppose this will help set her body clock
2) what A time should I be aiming for before bed? I did 2.5hrs after a 1hr15min nap and she rolled around for over an hour? Is that UT or OT?
3) I'm putting Audrey into bed at these times vs. having her asleep, is that ok?
4) what do I do with the next A time if she short naps say 30-40 minutes? Or more
importantly, less than 1.5hrs?
5) waking at 4am and playing, rolling and chatting for considerable time before crying! Should I resettle or feed her when the crying escalates? This is what I've been doing....
6) her milk intake is so minimal. Today I was lucky if I got 100ml each of her 4 bottles! 120ml before bed but then at 4/5am she'll inhale 150ml and want more but that messes up our first feed which she already doesn't want even if she sleeps all night.
I can't get her to drink any more milk (solids or no solids) and it takes me over an hour to feed her that small amount of milk despite being on the fastest flow bottle teats. She's almost 8kg so no issues with putting on weight!
Thank you so much,
Laura.