Hi everyone,
Here I am, one month after my first nap-related post, puzzled again by our LO's behaviour towards naps. During the past month she has become increasingly more resistant to naps, but the past 4-5 days have been the worst. She fights going to sleep so much, that it is really painful to watch and makes us feel so bad for her
She really struggles, when she used to be SO easy to put down. We literally used to tuck her in (awake) and leave the room!
She is also having trouble with her gums, she chews on everything she can find (even my face when I hold her) and doesn't seem to get much relief from teething gels. The doctor said there are teeth pushing through although it could be another month before one actually appears. This is obviously making her much crankier and more irritable than usual... Nothing seems to please her any more, she just needs to be held.
The result is, that it is really difficult to read her tired cues since she starts fussing half-way through A time. Every nap time is a struggle, and it takes her between 30 and 40 minutes to get to sleep. She isn't sleeping as well as she used to either, she often wakes at the 50m mark, but still manages to get to 1.5-2h sometimes (so she can still get through the sleep cycles).
My questions, or rather just worries:
> Does this sound like a sleep regression to you? Her night sleep is still mostly good.
> Could fighting naps be part of a sleep regression?
> Is fighting naps a symptom or teething or is it unrelated in your experience?
> Am I maybe trying to put her down UT or OT?
> Once the sleep cycles become more pronounced, does this change their sleep forever? Or do they go back to their old selves? I read somewhere that the 4m sleep regression is different than others, because changes are more permanent?
> Do you have any tips for helping a baby that hates going to sleep?
Here is our routine, give or take 15-20 minutes depending on the day. We are currently somewhere in between a 3 and 4h EASY (the change to 3 naps really helped her):
WU & E: 8
A: 8:20
S: 10:00-12:00 (we usually get a 2h sleep)
E:12:00
A: 12:20
S: 14:00-15:30 (we usually don't get past 1.5 - and sometimes much sooner, which throws her schedule off completely)
E: 15:45 approx
A: 16:00
S: 17:30-18:30 (cat nap max 1hr)
E: 18:30
A: 18:45 (including bath)
E (top up): 20:30
BT: 20:30-21:00
DF: btwn 11 and 12
Sleeps through the night with no other feeds most of the time
We have short WD for naps (darken room, sing lullaby and rock gently, put down while still awake, wrap). At bedtime, we have bath, into PJs, BF, lullaby, wrap).
What do you think? Your thoughts and suggestions are much appreciated as always